Samkelo Ndlovu’s Take On Relationships: “Make sure your actions match what you say.”

More often than not relationships tend to end way sooner than you intended, most times it’s because one person did the complete opposite of what they had said they would do.

Samkelo Ndlovu is one person who’s always real with her fans and herself and tells it like it is.

Now we’re not too sure if the actress and musician has a Bae or not but judging from some of her Instagram posts, we honestly think she’s on the market.

Sometimes it doesn’t make sense to get relationship advice from someone who isn’t in one but, Samkelo has a few words of wisdom for everyone and we totally agree with everything she’s saying.

In a recent Instagram post the actress shares the difference between “desire and possession” and adds that one should know what they want to keep a steady relation, be it friendship or an intimate relationship, you should know what you want and stick to your word.

What Do You Really Want…

Make sure your actions match what you say. The desire to possess can blur all kinds of lines. Make sure your words match your actions. Desire and possession are two different things and they can also be one thing too. Check yourself, and if your actions reflect what you feel and your words are saying something totally different then go back to the drawing board and ask yourself what you really want…

A photo posted by Samkelo Samu/Samurai Ndlovu (@samkelondlovu) on Nov 11, 2015 at 11:21pm PST

Why You…

?me, when some guy comes up to me at the gym while I’m sweating, breathing heavily on a thigh machine that makes it awkward to make eye contact with anyone while on it and says “hi” then sips on his water and proceeds to say “I just wanna be you personal trainer”. ??? there’s Soooooo many hot guys at my gym, why did God send HIM??? He’s unhot. Aghhh… I’m moving to Poland.

A photo posted by Samkelo Samu/Samurai Ndlovu (@samkelondlovu) on Nov 10, 2015 at 4:48am PST