Mariam Timmer Talks Bold Energy and Authenticity on RHUGT: Africa

Showmax’s newest original reality series, The Real Housewives Ultimate Girls Trip: Africa, premieres on Friday, 28 November. This exciting spin-off brings together standout personalities from Lagos, Abuja, Durban, Johannesburg, and Nairobi for the ultimate luxury escape to Brazil.

Ahead of the premiere, Mariam Timmer spoke exclusively to Showmax about the energy she brings to the show, the surprises of filming abroad, and why she has become a fan favourite.

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What was it like to be on the first edition of The Real Housewives Ultimate Girls Trip: Africa?

Being part of the very first edition of RHUGT: Africa is an incredible honor and a major milestone for me. Just like being part of the debut cast of The Real Housewives of Lagos, it carries that same powerful feeling, if not even more. I feel I’ve helped other African countries, especially Nigeria, shine on a global platform. My name, Mariam Timmer, will always be part of the conversation when it comes to groundbreaking reality TV moments in Africa, and that’s something I’m deeply proud of.

RHUGT Africa was amazing because they could have chosen anyone, yet they chose me. That, to me, is proof of my work ethic, authenticity, and the energy I bring to the screen. Staying true to myself has opened doors I never imagined.

As an OG housewife, having been on all seasons of The Real Housewives of Lagos, what do you think RHUGT Africa will make people understand about you that they didn’t before?

The Real Housewives Ultimate Girls Trip will make it impossible for people to overlook my evolution. I’ve grown, elevated, and refined who I am personally, emotionally, and professionally. I’m not the same woman you met in Season 1 of RHOLagos, and this trip shows that clearly. My consistency, work ethic, and presence speak louder than ever.

People will see that I’m not just someone who shows up; I show up with intention, clarity, and control. This season is a reminder that Mariam Timmer isn’t just part of the show; she sets the tone.

Was there anyone you connected with immediately and anyone who surprised you in ways you didn’t expect?

I connected immediately with Annie Mthembu from the Durban franchise. Our energy matched from the start, and we bonded both personally and professionally. I also connected well with Princess Jecoco from Abuja. As for the ones I didn’t connect with right away… you’ll have to watch the show to see how that story unfolds!

Did you form any new friendships on the trip?

Absolutely! I formed beautiful new friendships, especially with the Durban ladies and Princess Jecoco. I connected with them in a very genuine way. We were able to open up about our personal lives and support each other. That, to me, is true sisterhood.

You’re known for being expressive and unfiltered. Did you feel the need to manage perception differently on this trip, or did you lean fully into your natural energy?

Haha, yes, everyone knows I’m expressive and unfiltered. I never water myself down for anyone. I didn’t feel the need to adjust. Some girls came in with their own ideas of who they thought I was, but they soon realized I’m easy to talk to and a whole vibe on my own. I brought my natural, happy energy, but also stayed aware of the space and dynamics. So yes, I was fully me… just an elevated, intentional version.

Annie Mthembu of The Real Housewives of Durban said it was a tie between you and Christall Kay of The Real Housewives of Johannesburg on who brought the drama this season. Do you agree?

Haha, I love that! Drama makes these shows entertaining, and I definitely brought my energy. Christall Kay had her moments too. But while I bring drama, I also bring authenticity, fun, and heart—making my presence unforgettable. So yes, I’ll own it; I brought it, in true Mariam Timmer style!

Which cultural moment on the trip made you proud to represent Lagos and Nigeria?

Every day on this trip made me proud to represent Lagos and Nigeria. Being Nigerian isn’t something I switch on and off—it’s who I am. One of my proudest moments was teaching the girls about my Yoruba heritage. They were fascinated and genuinely appreciated the culture I brought.

I also wore only Nigerian designers throughout the show. Every outfit was a statement and a celebration of our country’s creativity. Representing Lagos and Nigeria will always be my honor.

Your style is a big part of your identity. What went into your fashion choices for RHUGT: Africa, especially knowing you were stepping onto a continental stage?

My style is a major part of my identity, and I came prepared. I wanted my fashion to speak loudly and proudly about where I come from. Just like on RHOLagos, I spotlighted Nigerian designers. Every outfit was intentional and showcased Nigeria’s artistry. Representing Nigerian designers throughout the trip was a major statement for me.

Why should people watch you on RHUGT: Africa?

Because I bring it all: authenticity, grace, fashion, fun, laughter, drama… basically the full experience. With so many incredible personalities from across Africa, it could get chaotic, but I kept it exciting, real, and unforgettable. Expect bold fashion, bold energy, and bold moments you won’t be able to take your eyes off!