DJ Zinhle is smitten and can’t stop gushing about her James Bond of a bae. Speaking to Sowetan this week Zinhle opened up about the work she had to do on herself before she allowed another man into her life. DJ Zinhle says she has seen her man every single day since they met.
Zinhle says she would meet people but knew they were not the right person for her. After a powerful conversation with her friend, Zinhle says she spent the entire year working on herself.
“I had a very powerful conversation with my friend, where I told her that I keep meeting people, but I keep meeting the wrong person. She advised that I just stop and become the person that I want to meet. If you want someone that is kind to you then you need to become that person to yourself first and you will attract that person,” Zinhle told the publication.
Zinhle says she started telling herself the things she wanted to hear from other people. Working on herself, healing and making happiness her top goal.
“I did that 100% person. So I told myself how beautiful I was and how much I loved myself, all that kind of stuff because we can be so unkind to ourselves. I was also open to meeting someone amazing. I gave myself time and when I met him it was instant. I was just like ‘this is my guy’. I have probably seen him every day since then. He is ease of life, kind, happiness and amazing.”