Mzansi Answers How They Would Feel If Their Partner Made Them Raise Another Person’s Child. We have often heard of sad stories about women who make men support a child that’s not theres.
As sad as it sounds, this cruel crime happens more than we can count and Mzansi answered how they would feel if that happened to them. We asked the people of Mzansi how they would feel if that were the case for them and its safe to say that nobody would appreciate it.
Day time Television has made a killing off of shows based on finding out if the child that tone has been raising for many years is in fact theirs, and we have heard way to many “You Are Not The Father” verdicts too many times.
Here are some responses from a few people who imagined themselves in the same predicament.
“Eish being a woman myself I get sooo hurt ? when I read such stories, truth be told there’s millions of daddies support kids who aren’t theirs without them knowing… I wouldn’t be hurt if my kiddies dad ask for DNA, it’s not because he doesn’t trust me, but hay it’s seeing these kind of stories everyday“
“I can’t imagine walking away from a child I’ve loved for 16 years. But I would be done with her“
“The brutal situations we go thru as men……many men are made to take care of kids that don’t belong to them. Another painful reality is that when a woman doesn’t wanna share a child with you she has the power to terminate the pregnancy. But if its the other way round its beyond your control as a man. So imagine sharing a child with a woman u don’t want…….. We go thru hell as men“
“Consider the years of maintenance as a gift of love to the child…even though you know the truth now continue fathering that child“
“I would continue loving the child. I would continue supporting the child“
“It’s the most crucial time in the child’s life, to walk away now, did you ever really love the child? Can you imagine the rejection the child will be feeling“
“I’d dump the mom but continue the relationship and supporting the child, in fact I’d apply for full custody when I separate with the mom or skip the country with that child“
“The one who raised her is the father..the bond is stronger than the one who fathered her“
“I wonder if the other real father was also supporting and paying maintenance for this child.?The victim here is the child.One can only hope he gets counselling for his trauma at such a vulnerable age“
