Musa Mseleku, the famous polygamist and star of the reality show Uthando NeSthembu, continues to stir conversations around traditional African practices, modern relationships, and gender dynamics. Mseleku’s polygamous lifestyle, which involves having multiple wives, has sparked widespread debate. Some see it as a celebration of cultural pride and personal freedom, while others criticise it for perpetuating patriarchal values.
According to Sunday World, Mseleku’s relationships offer a rare and intimate look at the complexities of modern polygamy, shedding light on both its joys and challenges. His recent decision to marry a fifth wife has dominated headlines, especially considering his long-standing wish to expand his family.
However, Mseleku insists that the addition of wife number five is not a reflection of personal growth or future vision. “Wife number five is not going to determine how my life will develop as I grow. Taking a young wife has several advantages. And I am positive that she will be able to carry forward the rest of the generation,” Mseleku explained in a recent interview.
The polygamist’s dream of fathering 20 children has also sparked conversation. “I know that some of my wives ensure that they prevent having more children. So, my dream is not possible under these circumstances. I cannot say I am leaving this to my sons. Because they will have children of their own and their families, but mine is to guide them,” he shared.
Despite his ambitions, expanding his family hasn’t been without its challenges. Some of Mseleku’s wives have expressed unhappiness with the idea of him marrying additional women, with a few even threatening to leave if he follows through with his plans. Mseleku, however, remains firm in his beliefs. “If they decide to leave, it will be a sad thing, but I cannot stop them. I always make sure they do not leave, but I cannot share the secret of how I manage this,” he said.
Living life under the scrutiny of a reality show has undoubtedly affected his decisions, particularly when it comes to protecting his children from public judgment. Despite the pressures, Mseleku believes his children are resilient enough to navigate the challenges. “My children know what is good and bad for them. So, the biggest protection comes from them rather than me. Mpumelelo Mseleku is bound to make mistakes because he is young. But with time, he will be a great person,” Mseleku stated confidently.
