In a shocking and emotional episode of the reality TV show Themba: My Inked World, former Big Brother Mzansi winner Mpho wa Badimo revealed the harrowing experiences she endured during her relationship with Themba. The well-known sangoma bravely opened up about Themba’s drug use and the abuse she suffered, allegations he denies on the show, painting Mpho as a vindictive ex.
In an interview with DRUM, Mpho reflected on the recent explosive episode, expressing how difficult it was to watch. “Talking about this on the show was like removing myself from something that had put me down for so long. That chapter of my life is gone. Watching it yesterday was reliving what I had buried in my past,” she said.
Mpho recounted efforts to keep Themba from using drugs, such as preventing him from leaving the house and informing his family, only to be accused of enabling his addiction. The tension and toxicity between their families were evident to viewers, who saw heated disputes play out on screen.
Mpho made it clear she has no interest in involving Themba or his family in her child’s life. “Our relationship and everything were so public, so it is better that when he (her son) grows up, he will get to see it for himself. I’m pretty much shocked to see how they act publicly. Privately, I know what I was facing, so I have every reason to behave the way I am behaving. At the end of the day, people can say whatever they want, but I am the mother of that child.”
Despite some viewers u her decision to keep the child away from Themba and his family, Mpho remains steadfast. “I wish him well. There are absolutely no grudges I hold against him. But I don’t think I am in a place to allow him in my personal space. Right now, I would do anything to protect my child until there is peace on both ends. I have moved on with my life, and I would like that to be respected. This is not something that happened so long ago; it is two years now. It is still very fresh, the wounds are fresh. Right now, everyone should just keep their distance.”
Through these experiences, Mpho has learned valuable lessons and finds solace in the fact that other women can relate to her story. “Love is a beautiful thing, but we need to understand that not everyone needs to be fixed. As women, naturally, we are nurturers and caregivers. When we see potential in people, we try to make amends where we can. Don’t bekezela (hold on) for love. But when some things are beyond you, choose the exit door. Don’t be the victim of your story, but a victor.”
For now, Mpho’s main focus is on caring for her two boys, ensuring their safety and well-being as she moves forward from her painful past.
