As the festive season draws near, Lynn Forbes, mother of the late rapper AKA, has shared a deeply personal reflection on grief and the importance of self-grace.
Kiernan “AKA” Forbes tragically lost his life on February 10, 2023, outside a restaurant in Durban, and his murder remains under investigation. In an emotional social media post, Lynn opened up about her journey through grief and the valuable lesson she’s learned: the need to offer grace to oneself.
“This Christmas, I want to share something deeply personal and meaningful; The gift of grace. In the midst of grief, I have learnt that grace is not just for others. It’s a gift we must offer ourselves too. It’s about choosing to let go of pain, to forgive where we have been wronged and to heal in a way that honours ourselves and others,” Lynn wrote.
She continued, reflecting on how difficult times have helped her understand that other people’s actions often stem from their own struggles. “When we come to accept that the behaviour of others have more to do with their internal struggles than us, we learn grace,” she said.
Lynn’s message was one of hope, urging people to embrace joy even in challenging times. “Even in grief or struggle, joy lives in life’s simple blessings; a smile, laughter, or the warmth of the sun. What brought you joy today? Share your moments and let’s celebrate life’s light together.”
