We all know how social media has turned nice girls into being blessees. In the wake of the unfortunate trend, Somizi has a solution. The Idols host and reality star thinks parents should bless their own kids before they go looking for blessers. “Be your child’s blesser,” says Somizi.

Somizi took to Instagram to share a little advice to his followers who are parents. “Be yo child’s blesser. No matter how small or big the blessing is. Just bless them,” he captioned a photo of a card he sent to his daughter Bahumi.