Somizi Mhlongo has opened up about his new approach to relationships, revealing that he’s no longer pursuing monogamy. Instead, he’s embracing a more fluid, honest way of connecting with others.
In a candid interview with TshisaLIVE, the media personality shared that after a series of high-profile relationships, including his tumultuous marriage to Mohale Motaung, he’s found a fresh perspective on love. “I haven’t found love again. I am just mingling to mingle. I’m just having fun. There’s no love. I am in relationships,” Somizi said.
Reflecting on his life and growth, he revealed how his understanding of himself has evolved over time. “With age, you realise certain things, you discover yourself. I’ve realised I am possibly 80%-90% polygamous and I am pansexual. So I’m exploring. I am just living my life. I discovered that later in my life and I am enjoying it,” he explained. “I am not committed to anyone, I don’t want anyone to commit to me.”
Somizi also touched on his personal philosophy regarding relationships. “I’ve reached a stage in my life where I believe no one should own anyone, no one should control anyone. People must do what they want to do, as long as it’s in agreement with the partnership.”
When asked about the possibility of marriage again, Somizi said, “Marriage is on the cards, I’ll definitely get married. I love the concept of marriage. To be honest, I’m more in love with the wedding than the marriage, but I understand the marriage part.”
Describing the kind of relationship he hopes to have in the future, Somizi explained, “It would be an honest relationship, not an open one. Open to me means you can date whoever you want to date whenever you want. An honest relationship means we have a conversation before anything happens and we have to be in agreement.”
For Somizi, the key to a successful relationship is honesty and openness: “An honest relationship will be sometimes I wake up not feeling the same way I felt yesterday about you, and I must be open and honest with it.”
