Nonku Williams, known to many as a businesswoman and reality TV star, is adding “author” to her list of accomplishments. In her upcoming memoir, Unapologetically Me, Nonku shares the deeply personal story behind the person seen on screen. Her book offers a raw and honest account of her life’s journey — one marked by survival, resilience, and faith.
“I was inspired to write Unapologetically Me to share the journey behind the person people see on screen — a journey of survival, resilience, and faith,” Nonku explained in an interview with TshisaLIVE. “Life hasn’t been easy, but through every challenge I’ve found strength. I hope readers see they’re not alone in their struggles, and that regardless of where they come from or what they’ve faced, they have the power to rise, heal, and rebuild.”
Creating this memoir was no small feat. Nonku spent over a year writing the first volume, determined to give each chapter of her life the attention it deserved. The process was emotionally intense but deeply rewarding. Working with an editor, she ensured her voice came through authentically, revealing each experience with honesty. “The writing process was intense, emotional, and rewarding. I did work with an editor who helped me shape my experiences into a cohesive story, but every word comes from my heart. Together, we ensured my voice, my truth, came through authentically,” she shared.
Nonku is already planning additional volumes to allow readers to absorb each stage of her journey gradually. “Each volume represents a different chapter in my life, allowing readers to walk alongside me step by step,” she added.
One of the most difficult parts of the memoir, she admits, was writing about abusive relationships from her past. Revisiting those moments was painful but also liberating. “The hardest part was discussing the abusive relationships I endured. Reliving those moments was incredibly painful, but it was also freeing. I knew I had to be honest about that pain if my story was going to make a difference for women facing similar struggles. Sharing those experiences was about showing strength through vulnerability and reminding readers healing is possible.”
Since her appearances on The Real Housewives of Durban and The Real Housewives Ultimate Girls Trip, Nonku’s life has transformed in many ways. Reality TV helped her embrace her authentic self, a journey that prepared her for writing Unapologetically Me. “Reality TV taught me to be unapologetically myself, no matter who is watching or what people say. It was like a live rehearsal for writing a memoir — owning my story publicly, without filters. Sharing my life on television helped me realise my voice has power, and that transparency, no matter how raw, can resonate deeply with others.”
Beyond sharing her life story, Nonku hopes to leave a legacy of empowerment. “My goal is to uplift others and give back to the community,” she said.
